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This article was printed in the L.A.
Times on July 25th, 2001and does an excellent job of telling my
"adoption story". The journalist, John Mitchell,
(unrelated), did a magnificent research job and conducted many
interviews over several months to put this story
together.
In Finding Fathe r, He
Solved a Musical Mystery
Whittier Mayor Allan
Zolnekoff loved his adoptive parents, but was a grown man before he
understood his talent for playing
instuments.
By John L. Mitchell, Times Staff
Writer
If you doubt genes set the
course of human behavior, please meet Whittier Mayor Allan
Zolnekoff.
His loving and hard-working
parents- Dad polished bumpers and Mom ironed clothes- had few
visible talents. Zolnekoff said they couldn't carry a tune in
a bucket.
So where did young Allan get his
passion for guitar? And what about that shocking red
hair?
For decades the answe rs
were locked in the files of the Florence Crittenton Home for Unwed
Mothers, where Zolnekoff was born in 1953. Social workers told
his adoptive parents little about the infant, except that he came
from a musically gifted family. They passed on one request
from the baby's birth mother: that the boy be raised by a
traditional Russian family.
The baby was 2 months old when he
was delivered to Annie and Paul Zolnekoff, filling up their modest
Whittier home. "We were so happy, because finally we had a
baby", recalled Paul Zolnekoff, now 82.
Zolnekoff's adoption was never a
secret, even though the circumstances of his birth remained a
mystery.
"From the time I was young my
parents told me the story about how when I was brought home from the
adoption agency I was so sm all
that my father was too scared to hold me," Zolnekoff said. "It
was a perfect way to tell me about my adoption. I always
knew."
But something was always missing in
his life, he said, something out of kilter. "When you are
adopted", he said, "you don't always feel like you
belong."
So began a common quest of adopted
children- but one that yielded some unusual
answers.
As a boy, Zolnekoff would sing
himself to sleep. Later, inspired by Muddy Waters, Jimi
Hendrix, Bob Dylan and others, he taught himself guitar and
harmonica.
Although music was important, it
was never Zolnekoff's true calling. He bacame an electrical
systems planner for Southern California Edison. But as mayor
of Whittier's 8 3,000 residents, he has learned to play politics
with a musician's ear.
"It's the closest thing to
performing I know," he said. "You have to be sensitive,
sometimes loud and assertive. Anger is even valid at a council
meeting. You play all the emotions- just like Miles
Davis."
He grew up on Whittier's
working-class south side and doesn't mind comparing himself to
Richard Nixon, another home-grown politician. Since his first
election to the City Council in 1992, Zolnekoff has gained the
reputation of being a tireless campaigner. He shocked his
colleagues on the council by switching from the Democratic party to
the Republican Party five years ago, and then returning to the
Democratic Party.
"I am conservative as a Democrat,
but for a couple of years I was a liberal Republican," he
said.
"A lot of this is fueled by the fact that
some believe in Nixon's hometown you have to be born in the party to
be a Republican. There was nothing I could do to measure up to
their standards."
Critics, like former Mayor Victor Lopez,
say Zolnekoff has too big an ego.
"To much I, I, I. He goes to
everything and puts himself up front," Lopez said.
Quest to Find Birth Parents began
in 1981
Growing up, Zolnekoff said, he never gave
too much thought to finding his birth parents.
"Had I had a dysfunctional upbringing, I
would have been in a serious search," he said. "But my parents
did a good job of raising me."
He took up the quest in 1981, around the
time his then-wife Janice, was pregnant with their first
child. The couple was concerned about the possibility of
genetic abnormalities. He asked his parents and learned that
he was born Glenn Terrence Mitchell.
Zolnekoff contacted an agency that helps
adoptees and birth parents find each other. To his amazement,
the agency had two letters for him on file.
"you have grandparents in North Hollywood
who have been looking for you", Zolnekoff recalled the woman
saying. After being unable to reach them by telephone,
Zolnekoff and his wife drove to the house and knocked on the
door. An elderly man opened the door.
"Hi! I'm Glenn Terrence, your
grandson. He said "Who?" I'm Glenn Terrence, your
grandson." And then he said "Oh! Come in! sit
down! We've been looking for you".
William Mitchell's hands were shaking as
they sat on the living room sofa of the house in North
Hollywood. There was no denying it, he thought: The
visitor had his father's distictive red hair, and Mitchell soon
learned he had his musical touch.
Grace Mitchell, the grandmother, had been
in the shower when the visitors arrived. When she joined the
conversation, the two grandparents spoke repeatedly about
Keith.
"They said 'Keith this,' 'Keith that" '
Zolnekoff recalled. "Finally, I asked 'Who is
Keith?'"
They answered:"He's your
father."
Glenn Terrence Mitchell was the only
child of jazz bassist Keith "Red" Mitchell and Dunya "Doe"
Samoyloff, a part-time actress.
During a 40-year career, Red Mitchell was
featured on more than 1,000 albums. He died in 1992 at
65.
His first steady gig was on 52nd Street
in New York in 1948, playing in a trio opposite Charlie Parker's
quintet. He followed Charles Mingus as the bassist with Red
Norvo's trio and later worked with the Gerry Mulligan Quartet, Andre
Previn, Hampton Hawes, Ella Fitzgerald and Dizzy Gillespie, among
others.
"He was an extraordinary musician who
could fit in with anybody," said Nat Hentoff, a veteran jazz
journalist.
In 1956, Hentoff wrote:"Red Mitchell has
become not just one of the better young bassists, but one of the
most creative bassists in all jazz. He is consistently
impressive in his solos, building with flowing, horn-like phrasing
that is never stale, and invariably reaching mature, satisfying
climaxes. His tone is full and firm, and he is clearly aware
of the expressive virtues of shading."
Mitchell's personal life was not so
smooth. His marriage to Samoyloff was on the rocks when
their son was born in 1953- -
the same year Red shared the Down Beat Referendum in the New Star
category. A year later, Red Mitchell was playing for jazz
singer Billie Holiday in Stockholm.
The grandparents tried calling Red
Mitchell that afternoon, but he wasn't home. Since 1968, he
had been living in Stockholm where he found the political, racial
and economic climate more to his liking.
Meanwhile, other family members arrived,
including Red's younger brother Gordon "Whitey" Mitchell, also a
bass player, and his daughter, Lesley Mitchell-Clarke.
"I came right over that day," said
Mitchell-Clarke, a Toronto publicist and jazz writer. "It's a
wonder someone didn't have a heart attack. I took one look at
him. The red hair, his height and face. He was obviously
family-- the spitting image of Red. For years I had been the
eldest grandchild, but now I felt the family was
complete."
At the impromptu reunion, Zolnekoff
recalled thinking about the depth of musical talent in the Mitchell
clan. Not only was his father an accomplished musician, but so
was his uncle, his cousin, Lesley, and her brother brian, who played
saxophone for Ray Charles. Even William Mitchell, his
grandfather, played pipe organ. (And as it turned out,
Zolnekoff's two childrenm Amy and David, had inherited the musical
gene.)
Father Wrote a Song as Tribute to
Son
Weeks after the reunion, Red Mitchell
flew in from Japan, where he ahd been working, and met with his
son. They pressed their palms together.
"Holding my hand up with Red's, I noticed
how amazingly similar we were, and as artists I felt we understood
each other," Zolnekoff said. Mitchell would write "Love's not
only the blues," a tribute to his son and the Zolnekoffs.
It was more difficult connecting with his
biological mother, who suffered from a form of lupus.
"We wrote letters to her in
Sacramento, but she never responded," Zolnekoff said. "We
weren't sure if she even wanted to see me or not. So we
drove there and knocked on the door. I was afraid she would
slam it, so I brought my son.
"She looked at us and immediately
cried," he said.
Samoyloff seemed to be overwhelmed
with guilt. She hadn't done well.
"It was as if giving me up happened
yesterday," Zolnekoff said. They tried to console her by
telling her that the decision to put him up for adoption was the
right one.
After her death, he read her
diaries and discovered that his father had pressured his mother to
put their baby up for adoption. Within the small Russian
immigrant community of East Los Angeles the Zolnekoffs knew of the
Samoyloffs, his birth mother's family.
Loking back, Zolnekoff said he
wishes he could have done more to relieve her
guilt.
"I would have been dragged from
hotel to hotel in the jazz, drugs and drinking world," he
said. "I told her I had wonderful p arents growing up. I could clearly see that they
made the right decision, and I had no regrets."
Red was living in Salem, Oregon
when he suffered a heart attack and massive stroke in late 1992 -
the same year his son was first elected to the Whittier City
Council. Zolnekoff flew up to be with his father before he
died.
"We were standing around for five
days on shifts as he died," Zolnekoff said. "We literally felt
him pass away. He gradually faded, faded and then his heart
stopped...I felt cheated. Things were just coming
together".
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